Yes, I have #3, that is, moderate to deep sequencing of pools of individuals from separate populations. I've used bcftools, but it seems to be geared towards having two genotypes, and the documentation is a bit impenetrable. I can try -T pair, but I think it's better if I just write my own solution for this - that way it will be comprehensible to me.
Akamai seems to be struggling, so Boston College and github are slow as molasses right now, but I'll check out FreeBayes when they get back in order. From a cursory glance, it looks like just another SNP caller, with a zillion knobs and dials that needs manual adjustment - I'm not sure it will be any help.
When I have a few good variant candidates that are likely to be different, I can go back and do proper individual based genotyping, as in your #1.