It sounds like from the description, you have is Nanostring data, not RNA-Seq? Just to clarify, as RNA-Seq (generally speaking) is probe free.
With regards to your comments:
"I want to merge these data to have 3000 genes as samples are the same"
- whenever data is merged, need to always ask whether how the data was acquired is the same. This means are they confident that what they are calling a 'gene' between both setups are the same. Speaking from personal experience if it is nanostring, they should be as that is Nanostring marketing pitch. However, if it is a microarray, probes ie what they are target are known to be dirty (off target effects)
"what could be controls to look at variation within the datasets?"
If it is Nanostring, they have built-in controls to address several different noises sources. Basically, there are two, biological and technical.
"does the sequence of probe for a common gene has been different for panels?"
To understand what is meant by the Tm and probe comment, you should read up on how PCR (polymerase chain reaction) works.
Probably important to state what the aim of your downstream analysis is.
Thank you, I found very similar differentially expressed genes in both platforms and read distribution for common differentially expressed genes also is the same. So, I thought to have a bigger datasets. I heard for each patient we have read counts of two platform. I guess it is unnecessary but I don't know how to combine these two data in a way not to loss information. My main aim would be making a predictive model to find prognostic genes from responder and non responder patients