Hi Andres,
Thanks for your response, it's really nice to know that someone else has had this issue and thought a bit about the problem. I was starting to think I was being a bit crazy for worrying about this.
Making the situation worse, the data I am working with is single-end data, so I cannot even use varying reverse reads and insert lengths to distinguish biological duplicates from PCR dups... I think I may have to just omit that argument from STACKS as you did and accept this as a limitation of the study.
Yes I agree it can distort allele frequencies, that's a definitely a concern. Fortunately, my species is a self-fertilising crop so it is highly homozygous. Hopefully I therefore won't accidentally lose too many heterozygous alleles during variant calling... A bit frustrating though! Could you explain a little why a strict variant calling QC may help?
Many thanks, Max