This is what Brian Haas recommends when he teaches. The Trinity folks put together some documentation on how to do it with Trinity here. You don't have to use Trinity and EdgeR but the logic is all laid out.
http://trinityrnaseq.sourceforge.net/analysis/diff_expression_analysis.html
Have you searched the forum? A similar question has been asked: http://www.biostars.org/post/show/17611/ Also, are you familiar with R and bioconductor? There are some powerful tools between those two that can answer the questions you are asking.