I don't want to distract from the main answers (since I think you need to do some testing for everybody, meaning you wouldn't lock down the workflow ahead of time). However, in terms of the FPKM threshold, maybe these are relevant:
http://cdwscience.blogspot.com/2013/11/rna-seq-differential-expression.html
http://cdwscience.blogspot.com/2019/02/variance-stabilization-and-pseudocounts.html
You could also do something like require genes to have a certain FPKM threshold for a threshold of samples, which is more like I have here (although that is way messier to look at, and one of the main points is that I think you kind of need to make your own templates to make sure you understand everything that you are doing).