This is a very specific biological question. I would guess the ability to detect SNPs would be strongly affected by the number of transcripts expressed in each individual. I don't think anyone here can provide you with a definitive answer, the best bet would be to go through other non-model organisms to find more expectation values. Molecular breeding research might also help.
I would also show haplotypes - eg through visualization - of conserved well known genes (with SNPs) of the three samples.
Multisample SNP calling - through Freebayes etc - would at least give you the three samples together.
Lastly, this leads you very definitely towards molecular phylogenetics, trees and various relationship matrices.