Right, I'm working on a diploid plant. I assume there are two copies because it is a 1st-generation interspecific hybrid so reads from either chromosome should not merge as the hybrid's parents are slightly different. I did not performed the assembly but I think Velvet was used to build contigs.
I also thought I could annotate the whole contigs and then look for my 1000 genes but annotation jobs take a lot of memory on the bioinfo cluster (i.e. EuGene, Augustus,...). Since I'm not interested in the expected 30,000 genes that compose the genome, I prefer using a tool that only look for my 1000-gene set and extract the 2 copies. Besides, the assembly may not be of a good quality and I think it won't be a good idea to annotate it.